Colic is still a mystery to Doctors. They still do
not know what cause colic in babies. They will tell you that
there is no known cure for colic. I have always heard of colic, and
heard from mothers that have dealt with this problem. I have never had
to deal with a colicky baby, until my fourth child Nicholas was born.
Colic is hard not just for the mother, it is hard on the whole family.
There is no tried and true method to dealing with
a baby who has colic. A crying baby is the hardest thing a parent has
to deal with. The crying will stop eventually. There are some things
that you can do to help with these crying spells your baby is going
through. Here are some things you can try that I have found that works
with my son Nicholas.
1) Try walking with your baby. This can be
tiresome ,but it may be the only thing that works for your baby. Hold
your baby with his/her tummy against your tummy. My son tends to have
gas while he is screaming, and I have found that this helps with his
gas, as well as his crying. Sometimes he even stops crying for a little
while.
2) Push your baby in a stroller. Sometimes this
helps with my son. Take a short walk and see if it helps your baby to
stop crying. It may not work, but it's worth a try anyway.
3) Rock your baby. I have a rocking chair my
baby's bedroom, and when I rock him he stops crying and most of the
time falls asleep. I think it is the closeness he feels when I rock
him.
4) Put your baby in his/her car seat and take a
drive somewhere. I have done this many times. This option may not be an
option if you do not have a car, or it could become a habit. Look at it
this way; which would you rather do; hear a screaming baby, or drive
for awhile?
5)I have not tried this and do not recommend this
unless the baby is supervised by an adult. Many mothers I have talked
to say this worked for them. Place your child in his/her car seat on
top of the dishwasher or washing machine and turn it on for a cycle or
two.
6) Try singing to your child, or turning a radio
or a tv on to music. It may or may not stop your baby from crying, but
it could calm him/her down a little bit. My son calms down when I put
country music on.
7) Have your spouse take the baby for awhile. If
you are the only person your baby will let hold him/her, try to away
for a little while. Have a friend or relative help by watching your
child for you.
Make sure you get some sleep whenever possible. I
often have my sister come to my house and watch my kids while I take a
nap. This way you won't be so tired when dealing with a screaming baby
all night. My husband also takes the baby when he does not have to go
to work. It helps when you are not so tired.
Remember the crying will not last forever. Even if
nothing works for you, there is an end insight . Before you know it all
the crying that your baby has done will be replaced with smiling,
gurgling, and he/she will be a happy baby. My son is now 3 months old
and he is not crying as much as he did two weeks ago.
If you feel you could use some support in dealing
with your colicky baby. here is an online support group for parents,
family & friends of colicky babies.
COLICNET.COM
http://colicnet.com/
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